CNN has reported on gay adoption in the United States (see: http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/06/25/gay.adoption/index.html). The story talks about how more and more gay couples are adopting children and the unfortunate hurdles they have to endure. Those that believe "gay" is contagious must not have the ability to read scientific reports proving otherwise. Homosexuality is a genetic disposition. Just as some people are born attracted to the opposite sex, some are also born attracted to their same sex. It really is a simple fact. I honestly don't see why gay couples are kept from adopting or marrying. The argument that the couple may not stay together is ridiculous since "straight" couples can't guarantee they'll stay together forever. In fact, statistics show that chances are they'll get divorced at some point. Speaking as a married heterosexual with one biological child, I love my daughter. She is my world. I also plan on adopting. I will also love that child ... what makes a family is love and compassion. If I had the money, I'd adopt an entire orphanage because every child deserves a shot at growing up in a loving home, having opportunities to live their lives, follow their dreams, get an education, etc. That is what these gay couples want for their children. There isn't some special group of loving heterosexuals and unloving homosexuals. To be a good parent is a choice and it requires dedication and whole hearted love. If the process of parenting for everyone was even a fraction of the difficulty it is for gay couples, maybe we'd have better families in this world. It's a shame heterosexuals can reproduce without consequence, without some kind of test. Perhaps if parenting wasn't such an accessible thing, children would have a better chance at growing up in a loving environment. As far as gays raising children, I think people need to lighten up. Nine times out of ten, those children are more loved and cared for than most children in straight homes. Being gay doesn't make you less human or less capable of loving so those of you who can't get past the idea should take a closer look at yourselves. Gay or straight, your heart loves and your brain knows whether or not you are ready to be a parent. If you are and your ducks are in a row, then raise kind, smart, benevolent children - give the world more beauty.
